Originally Posted By: Telemark

"Worry is useless energy. If you worry about something and it happens, you have let it occur within your head twice. If you worry about something and it doesn't happen, you have let it occur within your head for no reason."

I'm so sorry you have to deal with your H's A, but it sounds like you are handling it as well as you can. Focus on you and your S; regarding your H, it's his loss.


It sounds so simple, doesn't it? I agree that it should be simple, but I know in my case, and many others, it's hard to stop worrying. It should be a conscious choice, but it's not for me, my mind just keeps doing it and I hate it.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012