Don't mean to keep this thread going since Confused is moving back to Newcomers, but this is a darn good discussion.
My sitch was a blend of what I advocate and what Starsky advocates. I suspected about 3 months after it started, but I was in denial, so I was ignoring all the signs. I just plowed into my work. Once I confronted him and stated what ever it was had to end, that's when their A heated up, but also got very adolescent in nature. My H was lying left and right, playing both me and ow against the middle for a time. His feeble attempts to end it just kept revealing him over and over. The A became like a vampire exposed to light and fizzled. Maybe we could continue this over in group meeting? I'll continue there. Starsky? You coming over?
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
