You're absolutely right. I do know the right thing to do and contacting her is not that.

She messages me at 3am this morning:

W: I just want you to know that I dont blame you for where we are. A lot of it is my fault and I realize that.

The anger in me wants to say "you think?" but I do also recognize that what she's saying isn't 100% true. I know where I "fell short" at times. I have yet to respond and I'm not sure how to really respond to that...if at all.

mid 20s
Tgther 7 yrs
W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11
W filed 05/11/11
I moved out 08/05/11
Mediation mid Oct 11
D final Dec 11
Now what? ...2012