Kalni, Lanzo, Starsky, DNO, Thanks for the 2X4's. I need to think beyond penetration as was suggested. I get overly focused on that. There will be opportunities to move forward, it I take advantage of them. As Starsky suggests, it is time to move forward. The window of opportunity is open. As Kalni observed, I was expecting dancing to cure the M. I was staying in a comfort zone. DNO reminds me to think in DB terms, and to hear what my W is trying to communicate to me. At some point, if things aren't moving forward, a different pattern needs to be introduced, no matter how small. It's amazing how we can create obstacles for ourselves, and adopt an unhelpful perspective.
I think it's time to move from dancing friends to boyfriend and girlfriend. It's time to start looking like a couple, instead of two people hanging-out. I feel it for the first time maybe ever, or for a long time. It won't be acting, but will be a process of opening up.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
