Originally Posted By: scaredashell
P.S. I am interested to know if Hearts Blessings post on the stages of MLC is an actual psychological theory and if so who's is it.
I am fascinated by how specific it seems to be and how i can see about where my W is in the process.
HB stages of MLC come from Jim Conway.
I must admit that HB, I feel, has written it much better that Conway,
but he provided the basis of it.(From the book Men in MLC).

I do not believe it is as of yet a psychological theory, DSM would be more than likely DEPRESSION.
But you are correct that the STAGES lay out a framework that repeats itself over and over.
Like I said in my first post to you, she is in replay.
And I feel no matter what I have said in the past that anything under 2-3 years from BD is replay.

MLC takes TIME.


Me-70, D37,S36