P.S. I am interested to know if Hearts Blessings post on the stages of MLC is an actual psychological theory and if so who's is it. I am fascinated by how specific it seems to be and how i can see about where my W is in the process.
HB stages of MLC come from Jim Conway. I must admit that HB, I feel, has written it much better that Conway, but he provided the basis of it.(From the book Men in MLC).
I do not believe it is as of yet a psychological theory, DSM would be more than likely DEPRESSION. But you are correct that the STAGES lay out a framework that repeats itself over and over. Like I said in my first post to you, she is in replay. And I feel no matter what I have said in the past that anything under 2-3 years from BD is replay.