Yes, I did change when my spouse walked away. But she was "done." I have been trying to get LL to avoid this state because I went through that. I went through trials and tribulations and it didn't matter what I did. The problem with LL's H is that he just doesn't believe it. He thinks he is holding negotiating cards, but that is merely a way to avoid commitment. He needs to be pushed for real and it has to be believable.
