Not sure where I read this tonight, girl...

Be strong in your convictions!

Yes, keep the road home paved and smooth... If that's what you want...

But if your convictions are strong regarding your H's affair, where's your boundaries and how do you intend to enforce them?

And at this time, I'm wondering if "cordial" is what you're really wanting to go for, at this time...

Not saying it should be otherwise... just asking...