tank, not an "I told you so". First I never said it. But I know some did warn you of how difficult this arrangement could be.

First thing is first. Great that you didn't talk to her tonight. You need to clear your head first. If it's 24, 48, 72 hours. Whatever it takes.

Don't go into it emotional and out of sorts.

Now during this time. You need to calm down and decide what is best.

Is the current situation working?

What do you want?

Is it best for you and the kids?

Not easy questions. No easy answers.

I can tell you mine. And others can as well. But really, I would like to hear yours.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.