Come on Starsky, where's the yelling?

The thing is mgm, you are one here that you get the concept.

You KNOW what you need to do.

So you come in offering your own 2x4's.

That is good!

Look, this isn't meant to sound like an ass, but...

If this helps you...

Your W is saying GET OUT!

And you want to say "OK, hope you do well"

How does this sound to you?

This has nothing to do with going the other direction and being a d!ck.

It's just being strong.

Respecting her decision for NOW.

And taking care of yourself.

At some point soon, you two will be seeing each other face-to-face again.

What kind of man are you going to show her?

Strong and confident?

Or scared and weak?

Use this time you have wisely. This is where you build the strength.

Wish you well.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.