LL, You do what you need to do for YOUR happiness. You've been at this long enough to know what wroks and what doesn't.
I won't question your decision whatever you finally decied to do.
Sooner or later we all have to make a decision if our WAS or S at home doew not ever meet our needs.
LL believes she has done all she can do. Maybe that will change, maybe it won't.
We can't change her mind if that's the way she feels any more than she can change her H.
I know this bb is all about saving your M, but not EVERY M will be saved.
I hope LL's sitch will somehow turn around-truly I do, but we need to be there for the people that are at the end of the rope and support them in their decisions.
Having said that, I know LL WANTS her M to work. She says that time and time again. LL, pray for a miracle. So will I. Rachael