Uh-hum, If I might intercede please, I think that LL thinks if that's what it takes for her husband to open his eyes and see what he's losing that his enthusiasm won't last.
He'll do what he did before to get her back, but it didn't stick. He went back to his old ways.
I can hear the frustration in LL's posts.
I don't think it's hopeless either, but I can understand her thinking the way she does.
