my doing to h exactly what he did to me..you up for it???
just teasing...I don't know wtf it will take...I understand and appreciate all the advice to go out and do my own thing..focus on me etc...but know that just makes me an enabler...easy for him to sit at home falling asleep watching football..then if I remark that we don't do anything it's "well you don't have to go out all the time...or you're the one who wanted to take this class"
I'd tend to doubt that actually seeking legal councel and starting a d process would have any effect on him at this point and truthfully if that's what it takes then it aint worth it.
