WAW for 6+ years -- Need Help

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Hi dbmod. Not much has changed. MIL is doing really well after heart surgery. W is back now after being gone two weeks. I let her do the calling during the two week absence except for a couple of times when I needed to call her back due to what was going on with son regarding college, etc. She has not talked about being tired and lonely for the past three weeks. We'll see how long that last. As I told the therapist, I'm not holding my breath anymore. I'm just doing what I can for me and trying to get 'tougher' should she leave. Not tougher acting, but just getting a 'thick' skin so I'm not as surprise..which I shouldn't be at this time. Hey, I've done and am doing all that I can now. So, its up to her now.

Semper Gumby (always flexible)