I will look into the calender, but as every one on here knows, my wife only saw the kids cause i picked her up, brought her to the house, let her stay at the house for her visit or the entire weekend and then i would drive her back to om's and drop her off.
It has been 2 weeks since she has even spoken to the kids. No texting them, or calling them. She doesnt even answer when they call or text her. She missed her visits this week. Its her weekend with the kids, and my parents are taking them all for the weekend. We dont expect her to show up and my parents want me to have space and freedom to look after myself and get things around the house done.
If OM brings her to get the kids, well he will have wasted his time and his gas, i dont care. I will tell her that the kids are at papa and mema's and she is always welcome to go and visit them there. Not on of my children want anything to do with the OM. All 4 have said they would love to spend time with mommy, but if OM is around they will not go.
My 15 year old is a pretty big kid, all he wants to do is punch the other man in the mouth. I dont encourage the behaviour but i encourage him to vent his anger and frustration.
so, i dont think i really need the calender. I take care of all activities, and she knows soccer is monday thru thursday and the times and locations. if she needs to know anything she can ask.
I think I have catered toher for so long, that I enjoy not giveing a sh&% about it anymore. its not my job to make her a great mom and be involved with her kids. If she chooses to live like a college student and ignore everything else, thats her choice.
When the time comes that she realizes what she has done, and what she put her family through, she will regret this part of her life. Maybe not our marriage, but her willingness to make 4 innocent people suffer. It will then be her problem to try and rebuild the bridges to her children.
