Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
But why so often do people Say"oh that won't last long" when they hear of the affair?



Fear, in my opinion. Fear of doing the tough things that must be done in order to confront it.

Passivity is always more attractive than more proactive things that take us well OUT of our natural comfort zones.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)