I completely understand where you guys are coming from and I'm thinking the same thing. I have pulled out of my thread in piecing because I truly do not believe that we are there yet. He says he wants to work on the marriage, but then he wants to do nothing that will help us to have a "new" marriage and I feel that is what piecing really is!
I'm going to go back to DBing as I was before he moved back in and hopefully that will help him to move into the "piecing" phase. CS is right in that I believe he is only here in body and for our D, but NOT to fix the marriage.
You guys are wonderful and you really help me to think...
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
