[quote] Handler says: She seems to tire, as she did during our Sunday drive, of me trying to engage her in conversation.
Sandi2 says: Bet you never thought you would see that day arrive! Right? Here's the thing, it has all changed. Her R with you is upside down now. What she craved for years up to a few months ago...she doesn't want it from you now. She still wants affirmation, etc, but not from YOU. That is what a lot of men don't understand. During the time the W has her WAW mindset....what would have been the very answer a few months ago (where you could have taken her to an over-night, romantic get-away, and healed some issues with her) doesn't get the job done now. Do you see what I'm trying to say?
So, do i still keep at trying to engage her in conversation?
How can I show her affirmation without upsetting her?
Me: 45 W: 45 S: 12 D: 9 M: 16 T:22
Bomb: 4/20/2011 Says she moves out in July with Kids Discovered Affair: 6/10/2011 She files for divorce: 8/18/2011
