I 100% agree - consulting with an attorney doesn't mean you'll go to court (in fact, a good attorney will encourage you to try mediation first), but it does ensure you understand your rights and responsibilities.

I've suggested several times that my H see an attorney to understand what he is legally entitled to in regards to our son (vs. what I'm giving him and what he *thinks* he's entitled to).

Remember, forewarned is forearmed.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11