Well she didn't get what she wanted.

Shell,

Not moving out...look that was a fight that was coming with that choice, maybe we screwed up and didn't warn you about it.

Its going to be a big fight, actually, and it is damaging to the 'calm'.

I still do not believe that the person who wants to be married should be the one to leave the home.

It is not vindictive, its not an angry tactic, if you need to assign a name to it, call it a reality check. And it's not even a very hard one.

They aren't happy with their life, let them make the effort to improve it.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet