Does it? I thought it was all about doing what works.....and different things work for different people.
I should clarify, Saffie. It seems to be against official DB message forum teaching. My copy of DR (and I don't have DB in front of me), Ch. 10 p. 193, is silent on the issue, as everything in the chapter on infidelity -- for both the betrayed and the wayward spouse -- seems to be addressed from a point AFTER the affair has already ended. I don't see anything about "What do you do if your spouse is having an affair, and refuses to end it?", other than the "after-the-Last-Resort Technique," which is also silent on the concept of exposure of affairs.
