Mornings

[a girl]

Another thing that causes me distress is when I see a date before the day my wife and I separated. It really catches my attention, makes me anxious and a bit sad. I just wish I could travel back to that date and make things different.

Does the same happen to you?

I think that's a natural reaction. You think "If only I had done X differently this time, we wouldn't be here." It's not productive thinking, though - you can only change the present.