Oh, sure--no, there have been cascades of this. Sorting 20 years of memorabilia into his and hers piles almost killed me. Heck, even trying to print out copies of insurance policies with her name still on them made me shut my office door and break down sobbing (for the lawyers--I have to do all the work of the divorce I don't want so that she can take more from me--where's the justice!?).

But it's better than it has been, at least. It gets better bit by inching bit.