Does it? I thought it was all about doing what works.....and different things work for different people. However, I don't think exposure should be done to humiliate or for nasty reasons. I think you have to take each sitch on it's own merit.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
