Yes I thought you might recognise the hole in your analogy.
However, it's true. I'm seriously considering forgetting my M and my H as much as I can and finding someone else to share my life with.
I have no desire to remain celibate and alone on the slim hope he'll return.
I deserve better than that.


BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.