Yes I thought you might recognise the hole in your analogy. However, it's true. I'm seriously considering forgetting my M and my H as much as I can and finding someone else to share my life with. I have no desire to remain celibate and alone on the slim hope he'll return. I deserve better than that.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.