LL, I agree. Try to get H to go with you and if he shows NO interst then go out and have a fantastic time with gf.
I'm thinking maybe we can have a contest of sorts as to who's H has been the most boring as of late.
Mine has taken to the Rupelstilskin way of life also!
I'm asking myself is he just bored being around me and tried to escape through sleep, or is he depressed?
I only see signs of depression when he's with me. Around others he seems perkier, although no matter where we are the lights go out for him if we're not actively DOING something.
He NEVER gets through a movie unless it's a real bang, bang, shoot em up, chase em down type.
Staying home with him by the fire watching a movie means I enjoy the fire, and I watch the movie by myself, and I get the added enjoyment of watching him sleep and twitch around.
He never wants to go to bed with me in OUR house. He wants to go back to that hole in the wall Apt he lives in.
After I offered to come over and wake him up New Years Day and he opted to go to breakfast at his sister's, that sent me a pretty clear message to me of his priorities.
It helped me to rethink mine. There's gonna be some changes folks. Rachael is gonna start thinking about what Rachael wants for a change. Rachael
