Was there an opportunity after he got home to gently approach him with what was wrong, vs. making him drag it out of you? I'm wondering if that might have helped the conversation go more smoothly - telling him how he's going to feel probably doesn't make him feel very respected.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11