have to add this bit....

bil and sil gave us a gift cert for christmas that includes there baby sitting services...h said NOTHING about it...like "oh that's nice maybe we'll pick a night next week..or the week after"

I also got a gift cert a few weeks ago from the ambulance service to a resteraunt....h said nothing about that one either...

my gf that was here today while sitting at dinner (I made her stay and eat, well she was here and I didn't want her to just run off so made extra) asked if we had ever seen blue man group...I replied yes years ago..she asked when was the last time we did anything like that..I replied a while..she volunteered babysitting services for us to go out...she was trying to think of something for us to do and knowing that he likes football questioned how hard it would be to get tickets to the play off games ...I simply replied that h already has them and the other seat is bils...she then said well pick a night anyway..doesn't matter weeknight or weekend and I'll come watch the kids...h said...NOTHING!!!

are we getting the message here or what???

arrrrrggg!!

well folks...I know I have one gift cert that I'll use probably with my mom or gf...the other??? well I'll sit with it for a bit and if there's no mention of going anywhere I think I'll take gf to that one too!

just to be clear gf is girl friend..so no worries there.

LL