a couple of friends came to hang with us for the new year..board games and fireworks..they left about 2am...h and I cleaned up a bit then I sat at the bar h dissapeared to the puter to check the weather (like the weather really friken matters at 2 am when you've already checked it twice in the evening) so I wasn't going to wait around and decided to go to sleep...didn't tell h I was going to sleep instead just slipped by and up the stairs not returning..I do believe it was about a 1/2 hr or so before he arrived in bed...I was half asleep and he questioned why I had gone up (well wtf?) I just said I was tired.
dd woke me at 5:30 am and I tried to get her back to sleep (sometimes it works) ended up half asleep on her bed, son woke and the two of them were playing h told them to go downstairs (I think he was under the impression I was downstairs already and they just went up to bug him) I went down with them...eventually h did get up but I stayed on the couch...he asked if I wanted tea..said sure but I'm not getting off the couch yet..he said well when you do the cat got sick...so with that I got up (and admittantly a bit peeved..wtf...clean it up you dumb ass just equate it to me mopping the damn mud you bring in with your boots or cooking for you or just be a decent human and mind you it's not like "sick" "sick" it's just a bit of her food that she spit out) cleaned it up and went upstairs to bed it was about 8...stayed there til 11 (WOW!!!) when I did get up of course it was time to clean up the house...clear away the toys and bring them back down to the play room (again) and vaccuum..do the dishes...sweep the floor etc...h took son to the harware store to buy a vent for the basement and returned to work on that all day long (and I do mean all day long) leaving for an hour to return the rented drill. One of my gf's came by to visit the kiddies and deliver a puter for my mom...we hung out with the kids and watched h drill the whole in the wrong place (I said nothing about what he was doing but thought it's a good thing we have extra siding in the garage!!!) made a comment "aren't you the handy home repair man" as h usually leaves such tasks for his dad or brother or anyone else who can do it...he of course had a negative comment "more like handy mess maker" "well that's how ya learn" was my reply (don't get excited folks our intereactions for the day pretty much end with that)
h came in to eat dinner...went back out to finnish after...I bathed dd and put her to bed...found son sort of lost...daddy was inside but wasn't son could hear him but couldn't find him (he was on the bulkhead stairs going in and out of the basement where the vent was)....eventually h finnished then came to the puter to of course check the freakin weather again...then took shower with son ( I was using his tv at the time cause the fire place down there is auto..just flip a switch as apposed to the fam room where I've got to bring in wood, nicer but not worth the effort if ya don't plan on staying awake) h did come down to his cave (I didn't plan on staying) and let me know son wanted a kiss goodnight...so I flipped the channel to football and off I went...returned only to smoke a butt and then went to the fam room to chill.
h is of course...asleep in his cave...
I watched eddie izzard : dressed to kill...a transvestite comedian...pretty funny...not something h could watch for long but I enjoyed it.
well now off to bed..of course I'll pop down there and say goodnight..doubt he'll move off the couch but whatever...easier for me to fall asleep if he's not there anyway.
so that's the life of LL with her content h who's happy to just live HIS life.
