Thanks Girl, SC and WS.

I'm wondering though. Has anybody here had a spouse that was ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE they weren't in love and ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE they wanted a divorce and didn't end in divorce?

I'm just wondering if I should be bothering even having hope for my marriage.

She is so stubborn and hell-bent on this.

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13