Sorry has been a while since I posted anything. I'm 42 and she is 41. And no it was not a planned talk. I found her sitting on the bed in the dark at bedtime with tears in her eyes. I spoke up and asked if she was ok and said if she needed to talk that I was there and that for the sake of our son we needed to be able to communicate. Its a shame she couldn't talk like she did with something positive to say, this whole ordeal could be alot different. The whole thing is that she has never in the 22 yrs we have been married, ever really talked to me and now that she will it's all bad. Ive read DR about a 6 wks ago and have done a couple of 180s and have gotten some positive responses until last night. Ive been slowlybut surely doing the GAL. It's very hard because my whole life revolved around being at home with her and my son every evening. I sleep in the other bedroom to give her space and I stay very positive whenever I'm around her. Lime the book says she is not the person I know at all. I'm everything that makes her unhappy. She cares about nothing but herself right now and won't go to C. To her I'm the only thing holding her back from being happy. Go figure?
