Things I want to, but will not, do: Call his boss (very christian, very family oriented) and tell him that while on the company dime, H is engaging in an extra-marital affair.
Call him and tell him he can see his son when he gets a court order.
Pee on everything he still has left here.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11