There's a few on the board right now who had an A and are here to try to work on their M.
You are very likely making a great choice to back right off and let your W deal with the her feelings right now.
Right now, it's very important to look at some 180s that will SHOW your W that you are someone she can trusts and will never go down the path of A again. Because WORDS WILL NOT convince her.
