4evah'n'evah... awww maaan...

[aeolianchaos]

If this is the future, then that's OK... I do not mind being her "friend" or moreso being "friendly" with her...
That still doesn't mean that I will agree to having combined family b-days for kids... unless circumstances are drastically different...
Not to be negative nelly here, but this could be the "nice" before she asks again...
Next answer to her will be "I still have a lot I need to think about..." or similar... If she asks again...

So you think its a probability that her niceness is to set you up for a request?

I think its good then, that you are prepared for that possibility and won't be caught off guard.

But, what if it isn't? What if it is a gesture of warmth?
In that case, what does your integrity dictate?