LL, I can certianly understand your frustration with H's seeminly unwillingness to MOVE. I'm pretty much in the same place and I'm having some thoughts of IS THIS WORTH IT??
We can't actually get an answer to that question, so we have to look at what we had and what we might have in the future and make an educated guess as to what direction to take.
Looks like you see pretty much all negative stuff right now. Has it always been like this LL?
Can you look back to a time where things were better and you were happy? I know when we're disgruntled and pesimistic it's hard to see that anything will ever be any different.
Since I'm kinda in that mode myself, I'd challenge you AND me to watch closely this month and see if there is any hint of change. Any steps taken that are postive ones.
If there is LL, then there is hope.
I guess from what I've read of your thread, you really don't WANT your M to end. If that's the case then continue to fight for it even when it's not really in you.
