Let the inevitable happen, give up on preventing a divorce (it's not in my control anyway, it never was). Find someone else that actually gives 2cents.
I have seen too many on these boards fight a losing battle. Yes they recused themselves, but the did not prevent the dissolution of their marriage and their relationship with their spouses.
Sorry, but it's how I see things right now.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
