Okay, so be a WAW for a month. If nothing else, it'll prep you for the inevitable that you seem to be trying to talk yourself into. You continue to list a plethora of reasons why you should throw in the towel. So take a trial run for a month and see if it gets the two of you anywhere before you lose ALL hope.
C'mon girl! Show some spunk, show that grit you are so famous for. You can keep a diary here and let us know how it's working. STOP FOCUSING ON HIS BEHAVIOR AND WHAT HE IS NOT DOING, OR WON'T DO, OR CAN'T DO, OR DOESN'T THINK TO DO.
Oops, did I hit the caps lock?! Silly me.
Let's focus an entire month on LL. Now when have you ever done that, I ask?
And if all this sound, sane logic is not penetrating you, then I DARE you. No, no, I DOUBLE-DOG dare you... no, nope... I TRIPLE-DOG dare you!!!!!!!!
Now that is some serious sh!t I'm throwing down at you...