My MLC Story - Help is Appreciated

[Thundarr]

I really want to stand for my marriage and be there for my W when she comes out of whatever she is in. The bad thing is I read The Divorce Remedy again today and alot of the behaviors she is engaging in are covered in earlier chapters of the book not related to MLC. I took comfort in thinking this was something I had no control over starting and that she would have to work it out herself, but now I wonder if I did play a large part in it and just did not see my marriage crumbling before my eyes.

That still doesn't explain why she was unwilling to even give it a chance. She even said she would refuse to do anything to make the marriage work as she did not want it to work. I pray she was not thinking in her right mind when she said those things. I would hate to think the love of my life could turn against me in such a way and take pleasure in destroying my self esteem.

Does this look like MLC to everyone?