Quote: honestly I thought you gave up on me after some posts I made in the ssm forum.
Huh. Now that never, ever crossed my mind. Just because we might have different points of view is never a reason to stop talking. I've just been kinda busy.
Quote: in regard to the statment I made on the 28th...yes, h did come to see what I was up to however he didn't stick around...was just more of "come down here and watch football with me" when I declined (wich is not uncommon) he simply asked why and continued to go about his business...
Well, hello, this is the type of response you got after a half night. Just think if you did this for a solid month.
I know you are tired, kiddo. Been there, done that. You, my dear, are a fixer. Nothing wrong with that, I'm not criticizing. But he's not going to make an effort when you continue to make the effort for both of you.
I think you and I have been down this road before so I won't repeat myself. But half a night of no-effort on your part is not lasting and permanent change. You've tried darn near everything else. You have yet to give my suggestion a solid run, so you can't even argue about it with me... and this isn't nearly as exhausting as always trying to fix your marriage or him. STOP FIXING.
Try this for a month, and if it doesn't work, then we can argue.
