Hey there. Sorry that you are here. Our situations are similar. Feel free to check out my thread. You'll notice that a lot of situations are similar.
What I've learned (although rather slowly) is to just get the hell out of her way. Easier said then done, but you have to.
As for what TAMF said about the alien, you'll notice that the comment isn't that far off.
She is crazy right now. Leave her alone.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
