My heart beats harder when I read a newbes post frown Remembering what it was like in the beginning.

I am so sorry you are here.

The only advice I have for you is to vent here when you need to. Listen to the others as they encourage you to GAL (get a life) and detach. This will be hard and you probably won't be able to do it very well for a long time, but eventually it gets easier. I promise.

protect those babies of yours best you can. They will be her biggest regret one day, but if you are strong and there for them they will get through this with you. It will amaze you how strong they become with time.

Divorce doesn't have to be the worst thing that happens to them in thier life. Only you can make sure of that.

Please stay strong, and realize that she is crazy right now (I use that term lightly, but there will be times you are positive that she is!)I used to think it was very possible an alien had taken over my husband's body.

you must get out of her way so she can fix herself.

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12