I'd love to see LL take a trip, leave the kiddos with H and just have some LL time! Not sure that's feasible, but I can't HELP but think her H would pull his head at least part way out of his....oops!
And back to the bloody money thing! Lending money to family without telling you? I don't care if it was the "business's" money, this puts you in a LOWER position!
Just how old is your H, LL...he's sounding like someone of my Dad's generation for crying out loud!