I honestly believe that it depends of your definition of success....
If it is the restoration of your marriage ( and I understand that it is ) then I have a question for you..
If there was a one in a million chance at saving your marriage, would you take the chance , and do the work required to be that one percent ?
This is a hard path to walk, and many have done it before you, and if you stick around, there will be many to follow you on it.
Your life will twist and turn in every direction imaginable.
So will your view on the meaning of success.
My marriage did not survive the carnage that WE caused to it over the years.
Am I a success ?
If you limit your views to a single incident, then the answer would be no...
Am I successful ?
I think that I am, because I saved myself, in hopes of a better, restored marriage.
I am not going to take away any hope that you have, and always remember, that ANYTHING is possible.
There will be a valued poster along shortly named Cadet, and he is going to post you some very important links to read in your time that is usually occupied with the "what if" questions.
