Now it's getting hard, trying to keep my cool not seeing immediate results.
It took your wife awhile (years not months / months not weeks) to get to this point of thinking she is done. Nothing you do is going to quickly change her mind.
Immediate results? Are usually BAD results when the WAS makes them.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
