Question - Since you guys have been around here much longer than I have and have surely seen success stories, can you think of a common denominator in the ones that were successful? If I just let her go and commit to forgiving whatever she does while in the fog, once it lifts is there a good probability that she will return to me? I've read many stories about things that people due while in MLC and I'm not convinced they are thinking clearly enough to be culpable based on what I know about brain chemistry and hormones.

What is my greatest source of hope at this point?


M 39
W 41
Married 18 years
Together 21
D18 D10
S6
D filed May 16, 2011
Bomb Dropped May 18, 2011
D in process