WAW 3 months into divorce. seems like LRT is the only technique that applies to me. I have 3 kids that I'm involved with everyday because of their sports. I see, talk or email with my wife everyday also, mostly about our kids. things have cooled since the begining,our relationship is friendly right now. at day 1 she said she would not reconcile with me. how do I get a life when I see her everyday and all my time is spent with my kids? I also have a anniversary comming up real soon. how do I handle that?