Huge eye opener-How do I approach WAW

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Ken I just got off the phone and apologized to her. I told her exactly what I have written here. She asked me why I get so angry and I said, "I don't know." And that is the truth. She began to cry and said she was sorry for the divorce and I said that I understood. I did NOT ask her to come back. She wanted to know why I was apologizing and I simply told her because the way I acted was wrong. That was it.

She asked me what time I wanted to pick up our son tomorrow and I told her at about 10:00 am and then another call came on my phone and I said I had to go and that was it. I didn't grovel or be when she began to yell I simply just listened and sdidnaid, "I understand." I promise that I didn't talk about the marriage or anything other then an apology and answered her question to the best of my ability.

THank you for your comments in that I has been debating to call and apologize and your comments confirmed that apologizing was the moral thing to do.

On another note I did look up a psychologist and made an appointment with him. He specializes in anger management and uses coginitive therapy. He told that psychonalysis doesn't work on anger issues very well. He has an anger mangement group on Monday nights. He suggested along with therapy that I attend the anger management also. I told that I would.

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