Thank you, Bill, I can see that you are very upfront.
You are correct this is an issue that I am going to have to deal with. The Cymbalta I take helps me with my job so I don't lose my cool with my boss and it does work for that, but not always with interpersonal relationships. Yes I would have liked my marriage to have worked out but I believe there is a reason for everthing.
Yes I would be better off at this point beginning to work on myself and not obsess about my marriage anymore, in fact there is no marriage anymore, there's just me and I am single now.
I do think that my anger might be caused from fear and anxiety. I seem to get irritable when I am anxious about something that I don't want to face. But counseling might be a good idea.
"Someday we may look back on this and decide that Saving Private Ryan was the one decent thing we were able to pull out of this whole godawful mess."