All that would have been was an attempt by you to curry favor with her, hoping that it would improve your situation.
It would be pandering.
In another time, another place, might have been a cool thing to do. In the freshness of the separation, and given the nature of your attachment and pursuit of your wife, it would have smelled all wrong to her.
Though she probably would have accepted.
Because she IS detached.
Don't second guess every decision you make and weigh it against how your wife feels about it.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
