Well she finally talked to me last night openly and told me she was tired and after 3 months of trying , during which I caught her in an emptional affair, that she loves me but not as she should. She is tired and doesn't want to try and has given up. After some discussion and stupidly trying to convince otherwise(mistake I know)I went to my bedroom which is next to my sons. He asked what was wrong and I suggested he go give his mom a hug and that she needed one. He is 12 by the way. He came back and looked upset I asked what happened and he said that she told him that she doesn't love me. The woman I married would have never done this, I was floored. I went back to her room and suggested she do alot of praying and went back to my room to pray. She believes in God and has basically interpreted the bible in the way that justifies her feelings. Also the day I caught her in the emotional affair 2 months ago she was telling me she thought we were going to be alright, several times that day. Talk about confused. Would love to hear advise on this. Really hurt after last night, again. Been trying to do tlr. Thinking maybe dark would be better. Would move out but I promised my son I wouldn't give up or leave. Tough spot and very frustrated
