My MIL drove all the way to the cottage to pick W up. When she arrived, W wasnt there. The place was locked up. She drove all the way home. Called her daughter, no answer.
I called, and texted her. In my text i said. "we are worried about you, havent heard from you and the kids miss you, are you ok?"
I got this in return, "fine, i will call the kids today."
That was the last we have heard from her. Her facebook account was shut down. A new one was opened and she has added only our family and a few long term friends that still talk to her.
Nothing else at all from her. She didnt call the kids, she didnt show up for her visit tonight. My daughter was so upset she didnt want to play soccer at all. I finally convinced her to play and have fun. She tried, she at least put some effort forward but even her coach saw the difference and said something to me after the game.
I had to pick my SS from their dads as he still doesnt have a car. The first question they asked me was, where is mom? She said she would be home this week. I told them that there mom didnt come home, and i didnt know what was going on. S15 said "this is a "Fing" joke. She told me that if i ever have kids to never leave them like my dad left us. Look what she is doing. I hate her and if i see her and OM im gonna beat the "sit" out of him."
Uhm, i kinda just told him that it is okay for him to express his anger, but that he still needs to respect his mother and violence was never the answer. His mom has adult issues that she needs to figure out, and no one can do it for her.
So im right back to square one pretty much, but now, no one can even talk to her. It has been almost 2 weeks since she last saw or talked to her kids.
Ive put up with a lot of crap, this is to much for even me. I sent her a text, told her she was on her own and when she needs something from me, dont ask.
so, i guess it didnt work out how i was expecting it to. Kinda shocked by this turn of events, but there is nothing i can do.
I feel like a failure to my family and there doesnt seem to be much to make me change that thought. i did lose my cool, thank god it was on a punching bag. I am really starting to regret all that i have done for this women. How could i be so stupid?
